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ACT II · Trust

I Almost Didn't Buy From a Business Because Their Site Looked Broken

The product was probably fine. I never found out, because the website talked me out of it first.

ACT II · TRUST🎙️ Personal Take4 min read

I build websites for a living, so I notice this more than most people consciously do — but I still catch myself doing it as a customer, not just a builder. A while back I was ready to pay a business for a service I genuinely wanted. I landed on their site, and I almost didn't.

What actually stopped me

  • A layout that looked like it hadn't been touched since the site was first put up, years earlier
  • Broken image placeholders where product photos should have been
  • A copyright year in the footer that was several years out of date
  • No clear way to actually contact a real person — just a generic form with no confirmation it went anywhere

None of that told me anything true about whether the service itself was good. It told me something else entirely: is this business still actually paying attention. And in that moment, that question mattered more than the service description did.

The thought that actually crossed my mind

If they're not paying attention to this, what else aren't they paying attention to?

That's not a fair inference, necessarily. Plenty of genuinely excellent, careful businesses have neglected websites for reasons that have nothing to do with how they run the actual work. But fairness isn't what's happening in that split-second judgment — pattern-matching is. A broken-looking site reads as a proxy for broken attention, whether or not that's actually true.

What I did instead

I didn't walk away entirely — I liked what I'd heard about them from elsewhere, enough to look past it. But I hesitated, I double-checked reviews I wouldn't otherwise have bothered checking, and I very nearly didn't. Multiply that hesitation across everyone who finds that same business without the benefit of already trusting it from somewhere else, and the cost becomes obvious: some real percentage of those visitors just leave, and the business never even knows they were there.

Why I tell this story to clients

When a business owner asks whether their outdated site "really matters that much," this is the honest answer: it doesn't matter to the people who already trust you. It matters enormously to everyone else — and everyone else is where your next customer usually comes from.

Don't let your website talk customers out of you

A dated site costs you trust before anyone's even read what you're selling. Let's fix that.